Friday, 4 May 2007

Making Others Laugh

Just because someone is the most funniest person amongst their peers it doesn't necessarily mean that they would be the best at being a comedian. I think that it takes a particular sort of character that can actually succeed in becoming a comedian. I feel that it is a hard and competitive career to go into especially if no-one thinks that your funny, therefore i have found this website to help anyone who would want to fulfill their dream of becoming a comedian.

Thursday, 3 May 2007

Bad Comedians

A comedians aim is to please the audience by coming up with original ideas and using them to make the audience laugh. The main aim in order to be a success is to make the audience feel like the act they are performing is the most original that they have seen. This aim will not be successful if the comedian grows unpopular because of the jokes that are told. However I feel that some jokes can only be funny when everyday situations are used or even stereo-typical views.

Friday, 27 April 2007

Gambling


Gambling is a very risky business and even though sometimes people may win, there are others who don't. It is knowing when the right time to quit is and sometimes people don't realise when there luck maybe up and so end up losing a lot. The fact that it can become so addictive is the main downside to it. Those who are caught up in constantly winning and hoping that their luck will change, end up doing and taking part in things that will cost them much more. In order to gain more money individuals may result to taking out loans, stealing and using other deviant methods to get what they want. This is the main reason that I believe why gambling is wrong beyond the limit. The temptation is there for individuals and when they don't know their limit this is when things get much more complicated and end up with a lot of people getting hurt.

Thursday, 26 April 2007

Lady Luck is on Your Side ;)

I think that gambling is a good idea. It allows people to compete against one another and a little bit of competition I believe is quite healthy. It allows people to con others and if people don't want to be conned then they should try and out smart their opponent. Gambling can bring about such a rush, it seriously just makes you want to do it again and again especially when lady luck is on your side...nothing can stop you then! Everyone gambles once or twice, some even on a regular basis but there are so many types that sometimes individuals aren't aware that they are doing it. For example; having bets about the weather or betting with someone over some kind of known fact.

Friday, 20 April 2007

Lying to Gain Status

One thing that I can't stand is people who lie about the riches they have or the type of people they are especially when there lies don't even remotely sound believable. A person only gains recognition for the kind of person they are mainly through word of mouth. Therefore if a person really exaggerates on certain aspects of their life then they are the things that will represent that individual. An individual who lies has no real identity instead the identity they are left with is the one that they make for themselves and so is not a real representation of the person that they really are.

http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php

Thursday, 19 April 2007

Lying

Lying is something that everyone in their lives at one time or another have taken part in. "Why do something that will result in you lying about it later?", this question made me think about the times that I had lied about where I was, just so that I could go somewhere else. If I had told my mum where I was really going, I knew that she wouldn't allow me to go especially coming from an Indian society where somthings are seen as "immoral". Even though at the time lying seemed like the "right" thing to do, looking back now it all just seems abit pointless.

Saturday, 7 April 2007

Response to Tatoo Blog

I found this interesting about how the most important relationship is the one that someone has with the image they see in the mirror. As this mirror image in particular is the very thing which makes people want to modify themselves as they may not like what they see as their reflection. I too feel that by taking part in such methods of changing the human form, it is a type of non-verbal communication that does bring about attention, which isn't always positive. Using tatooing as a way of identifying yourself in the ancient third world is something that is part of that culture as there was no other way to identify people because many were illiterate. But now times have moved on, more and more people are educated and therefore should certain traditions stop?

Friday, 6 April 2007

Response to Smoking Blog

I firstly want to congratulate Carly on realising that "the path she was on was not going to end happily". As a non-smoker having someone smoke all in my face is one thing which I cannot tolerate (well that and the smell...eeeeeeeeewwwwww). If I wanted to breathe in cigerette smoke then I would light up myself. I can't describe how much I dislike it in words, but reading Carly's blog I realised that she as a smoker is quite considerate to others. Other people who do decide to exhale in other people's faces know exactly what they are doing and should consider how they would feel if someone else was to do it to them. NOT EVERYBODY WANTS TO SMOKE!!!

Thursday, 5 April 2007

Response to Infidelity Blog

I think that infidelity is now becoming more acceptable as more people are doing it and so it becomes more common. I also feel that it is "a bad thing to do" but you have understand that sometimes when a person is caught up in the moment then the consequences don't always seem to be the most important thing. I do however totally agree with the point that if someone is unhappy in their relationship, whether they are married or simply courting they should talk to each other rather than decieve one another.

Wednesday, 4 April 2007

Response to Being Too Religious/Joining a Cult

I agree with this view, religion has its own way of expressing the beliefs they have in so many different ways depending on the religion that it is. It is made up of so many elements that are clearly shown through physical appearances and through the behaviour of that individual. But when an individual tries to impose their religion onto someone, I don't think that, that is right in any way especially when the other person doesn't want to hear about it. It is an individual choice that people make and sometimes for some it is the only choice they know.

Tuesday, 3 April 2007

Response to the Prostitution Blog

I agree with the point that it is wrong to decieve anyone in any circumstances. Prostitution is associated with other deviant behaviour, you said that some crime is expected this maybe true, but I feel that it shouldn't be. By allowing people to get away with things when they are younger, may result in them committing a higher crime in the future. For example, a young child stealing from a sweet shop should fully understand and be made aware that it is socially not acceptable and such behaviour can result in a much harsher punishment.

Monday, 2 April 2007

"Kids"

Even though the roles in the film are played by young teenagers the contents of the film are targeted towards the adult audience. I feel that this film is helpful in the sense that some of the story lines that go on in the film are an eye-opener to parents. Most of what the film is about happens so much in todays society. For example, Telly having sex with girls as young as 13, we hear about this all the time now as there are children as young as 11 who have had children of their own. The film also brings out awareness about teenagers binge drinking, smoking, taking drugs and going out to parties/ raves which are perhaps too advanced for young people. But society is accepting some of these acts as part of "teenage" life. Also parents are kept in the dark about where and what their children are doing, Telly telling his mum that he has been looking for a job when really he hasn't been is a prime example of this. Parents can not always be too sure what exactly their child/children are doing.





Friday, 30 March 2007

"Kids"

The film "kids" was I believe an extreme of what the reality is that exists in the world of children today. I believe that similar events happen but maybe just not to the extreme that it shows in the film. I think more importantly the Directors point of the film has to be widely explored in order for him to even come up with such an idea. This film shows irresponsibility in so many ways. The fact that Telly never feels the need to get himself checked out and how he sees nothing wrong in manipulating young children who haven't reached the age of puberty into having sex with him. The fact that he doesn't even wear a condom whilst having sex, which results him getting aids. There is irresponsibility shown through Casper who gets so drunk that he doesn't remember raping Jenny, he uses his comical characteristic to end the film with "What the fuck happened". There is also a lack of parental control or awareness in the film, we hardly see an adult in the film even at the scenes which involve the house parties. Telly's mother is represented as a good role model for the children, as she is shown smoking whilst breast-feeding her child infront of Telly, her son and his friend Casper. This film has resemblances to the film "Kidulthood", it maybe represents a reality that kids are becoming more and more engrossed into an adult world and there is very little that many can do.

Sunday, 25 March 2007

Weblink for Body Modification to the Extreme

I forgot to add this weblink to the blog below

http://xahlee.org/Periodic_dosage_dir/20031129_body_mod.html

Body Modification to the Extreme

Where people want to enhance on the human body or use it to illustrate it as a piece of art is entitled to do so. But it is when the body is being modified to an extent where it is no longer "normal" that I don't understand why someone would want to modify their body in a way where it no longer takes the natural form. For example the human body is not designed to have horns or have bones implanted so that they are noticable. The human body is also not designed to have two tongues or have the entire face covered in piercings. By taking part in such modifications I feel changes the identity of people. I also don't agree with some cultures where certain traditions take place for example tribal people with their tattoos on the face and the chinese with the bounding of the feet. But these cultures have there own reasons for putting such ideas into place. I feel that as they are told from early on that this particular thing is the very thing which will make you more attractive then it is hard for some individuals to know any different. It is true that what one person might consider as being beautiful someone else might not and I guess everyone's body is their own to do as they please.

Saturday, 24 March 2007

Web links to Body Modification!!!

I forgot to add these web links, they go to the blog below!!!

http://www.boundless.org/2002_2003/departments/campus_culture/a0000699.html

http://www.plasticsurgery.org/patients_consumers/planning_surgery/psychological_aspects.cfm

Body Modification

I feel that modifying your own body is fine as long the individual still has the image of a 'human being'. It is fine when the individual is making a statement rather than actually disfiguring the body from its natural state. Some people I feel may get such things like tattoos and having piercings in certain places in the name of 'fashion'. However there are other reasons, for example- to show their individuality and maybe to attract attention from other people. Some children may modify there bodies in an act of rebellion. Also people who have plastic surgery that enhance on certain assets I feel is fine, aslong as it is something that the individual feels will build their confidence or make them some how more fulfilled. If someone is to get a tattoo then it must have some meaning to it, as it is a permanent piece of 'art' . In particular I feel that religious tattoos shouldn't really be performed, especially when people will be taking part in activites of the sexual nature. As society has accepted such forms of expression in moderation it is seen as nothing but it is when they excede the norms of social acceptance that it seems to be more than just an interest.

Sunday, 18 March 2007

Sinners of Religion?

Sometimes religion in society can bring about a sense of deindividuation, when the individual loses sense of themselves whilst taking on the group identity. Once people are enlosed into one group of religion they tend not to be so open minded about issues such as homosexuality, and having children out of wedlock, which is now more accepted into modern society. Also some people are now willing to commit suicide in the name of their faith. I do not agree with those who do take part in honour killings, as I feel that this is an unlawful act and especially how it may affect individual families. I also feel that when religion is made visible to people it can make them feel very uncomfortable. This then leads onto people not being willing to approach others from different religious backgrounds, and therefore resulting in conflicts over their individual beliefs. Certain acts that people carry out and the garments they wear maybe also be seen as irrational, as it does not fit in with the majority of societies views.

Saturday, 17 March 2007

Faith Brings Out The Good

People who maybe quite religious or who join a cult may see it as a way of truly belonging to something worthwhile. Especially when people feel a sense of loss during a certain period of their life they may feel that through religion they can re-find themselves again. By belonging to something where the beliefs are all the same, it can give a person an identity and something to be a part of. Being part of a religion or a cult can be relaxing, it can reduce anxiety and is less stressful than other elements of life, for example issues concerning friends, family, work etc. Religion can also be a way to guide people onto the right path. Such morals that people gain from religion tend to make up a part of their characteristics. Those who have a religion to follow may feel more obliged to follow the law, such things like the ten commandments soon become a part of life.

Sunday, 11 March 2007

When Bad Means Good

Even though some people maybe taking part in criminal behaviour or taking part in acts that are seen as morally being wrong doesn't necessarily make them a bad person. Some people may do "bad" things in order to help another or simply to help themselves. Sometimes people get caught up in activities that are socially wrong depending on what has happened to them in their life and they may have felt that making certain decisions is the only way to feel better, for example; taking drugs, prostitution and alcoholicism. However in some cases those who are the best at being criminals are the only ones who actually know how to stop others from doing it. This is clearly portrayed in the film "Catch me if you can". Where the "bad guy" ends up working for the police.

http://www.truthpizza.org/evilgood.htm

Saturday, 10 March 2007

Criminal Behaviour

I feel that some sorts of criminal behaviour are certaintly portrayed as being glamourous. In particular I think that certain memebers of the music industry tend to influence such behaviour as being a good thing. However most of the people who produce music may not realise that children as young as ten listen to the lyrics and respect certain artists for the way that they portray there lifestyle. For example 50 cent is an artist which not only through his music but also through his videos and games has almost condoned violence and gang behaviour as a part of his life.

Saturday, 3 March 2007

Infedility

Even though the elements of infidelity is morally wrong in society, it is a way of hurting someone. However this could be a good thing in the sense that it is one way in which to hurt someone and so can be used as a means of getting revenge. Having an affair is also a lot more fun, the risk element that is attached to sneaking around makes the idea seem more intriguing especially when you can be with two people at different times without getting caught.

Thursday, 1 March 2007

Infidelity


People commit infedility for a number of reasons whether that be for example because of problems in the marriage. Or even boredom, this may then lead them to be curious about whats out there and so the risk element can seem much more exciting than what they already have. I feel that if an individual is not happy with the person that they are with and want more from someone else. Then instead of cheating on the person they are presently with, they should break up with that person and then they will b free to do as they please with whoever they want to and less people are likely to get hurt.

http://infidelityrants.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, 27 February 2007

Masturbation Wants More


Masturbation has been a problem culturally as it is a topic which is rarely spoken about. Masturbation is an act that people engage in before the time comes for them to have sex. People may not want to talk about masturbation with others because they may feel quite shy about it, as it in an act that includes only the individual. Where as it is easier to talk about sex when it includes two people as the individual is not alone and so they are nor only talking about there own experience but of theirs and the other persons. However because masturbation is the primary act it allows the urge for more sexual acts to be encountered in order to achieve full satisfaction. Therefore in a sense if masturbation wasn't carrried out by individuals then there would be no urge to want more from it.

Monday, 26 February 2007

Masturbation

I'm quite amazed by Freud's statement about masturbation being acted out by each one of us through our childhood stages. As childhood is meant to be a period of life where everything is innocent, and masturbation is a huge part of an adult world. Children at young ages like to explore and find out about new things, whether that be a book, a toy or even a cardboard box. Therefore even if a child does touch certain areas of themselves could this not be done simply out of curiousity than having a sexual desire to do so?
http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/masturb.htm

Sunday, 18 February 2007

Peepshow

Someone who maybe interested in another's activities can become stalking when the person is willing to go to any lengths to find out certain information. Certain behaviour like doing things without the other persons consent or checking others private mail could be seen as being 'stalking behaviour'. Especially when the behaviour becomes persistant, obsessive and where there is no other benefit to gain but to satisfy their own desire. However curiousity is the cause for most people invading others privacy. In some cases this is the only way in which some people can find out the truth about any concerns that they may have.

Saturday, 17 February 2007

Prostitution

If a man or woman takes money off someone who is expecting sex, but then does not supply it, it isn't necessarily prostitution. Even though the intention of the money is for sex alone there is actually nothing that states that sex has to be given. However it isn't socially respectable either to accept the money when the intentions are one sided. If the man or woman do this to a number of people then the only thing they are doing is just playing the other persona for fool, and may lose some respect because of it.

Friday, 16 February 2007

Shoplifting

There are many people in the world who steal things even when they can afford it. The element of it being risky can also seem exciting, and there maybe a sense of satisfaction knowing that you can get away with it without being caught. After all, why pay for something when you can get it for free. The obssession of getting things without being punished for it can turn into an addiction. It is in a sense a way of saving money, this may appeal to those who can't afford the privaledges that others may be able to. Other reasons for shoplifting maybe the curiousity of what may, or may not happen. Also peer pressure amongst the young can cause them to shoplift in order to maintain a reputation that they feel they need to live up to.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/school_jobs/good_friends/shoplifting.html

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4477596.stm

Tuesday, 13 February 2007

Smoking


Smoking may have some benefits, in the past the taxes that are gained from those who smoke have been used to finance the NHS as well as the police force. However as smokers increase so does the health risk, resulting in a drain in the economy. For example the money that is used to fund the NHS is the same money that will be re-used to help those who fall ill due to smoking in the first place.



Monday, 12 February 2007

Smoking


Everyone knows that smoking is bad for the health and the affects of smoking are constantly made aware to us. Then what is it about smoking cigarettes that has kids from the age of twelve smoking them? Not only does it smell but smoking is a terrible addiction that makes it hard to give up. Children can be easily influenced by family, peers at school or even by those they consider as idols and so may feel that the only way to 'fit' in is to be just like them. They should know more about the facts before making their decision.